There are some sensitive points on our body, which are stimulated directly or indirectly while foreplay for arousing partners before engaging into sexual intercourse. Touching, pressing, messaging or stimulation of these parts induces sexual response. Some of the important erogenous zones are discussed here but once you are experienced you will discover the right ones, most arousing for your partner.
In sex, we can’t say what would turn us on, sometimes simple acts, such as straightening her clothing or hair, whispering in her/his ear can be foreplay and arousing. Similarly holding hands, touching the face, any type of caressing, kissing or messaging the erogenous parts are also foreplay.
Besides above, following are the example of different type of Foreplay usually takes place, before engaging into sexual intercourse.
(a) Deep tongue kissing.
(b) Touching and massaging erogenous zones over clothing.
(c) Touching and massaging erogenous zones under clothing.
(d) Direct stimulation of naked erogenous zones.
(e) Genital Teasing for a brief time.
(f) Undressing oneself or partner.
Breasts & Nipples
Breasts and Nipples are most sensitive parts for arousing. Touching, pressing, kissing and caressing the breast are very common. The nipples too are most sensitive parts of the females for arousing. Once she is aroused, the nipples get harder. Sometimes foreplay of sucking of the nipples and simultaneous pressing of the other breast, are continued till initial phase of intercourse.
Neck
The neck and clavicle area of the female is a very sensitive region. Licking, kissing, and caressing here are very arousing to many people. Additionally the back of the neck is very sensitive to arousal by lightly caressing. That’s why when a standing female is held from her back and light caressing and kissing at the back of her neck, she enjoys and gets aroused.
Female genitalia
Direct stimulation of naked erogenous zones is almost always considered foreplay. In women, this includes stimulation of the clitoris and Vulva. When the vulva is touched or messages, females respond quickly. This can be done over the cloth or under the cloth directly or naked. It should be started with simply touching over the cloth and then progress slowly. Once she is responded and aroused, her body will let you know.
The clitoris located above the urethra and vaginal canal, is not always noticeable. Clitoris too will be stimulated lightly while messaging the Vulva area.
For both sexes, stimulation of nipple and anus are also considered foreplay. Stimulation can be achieved by mouth, hands, or common household objects like feathers or ice cubes.
Male genitalia
In men, it includes stimulation of the penis and scrotum. The penis is the most erogenous zone in the male body. The joint of all sensitive nerves lies underneath the penis head which highly sensitive and may elicit strong sensations from the slightest touch or movement. The ridged band is also a fairly sensitive part of the penis as well.
The skin of the scrotum is very sensitive to light touching and stroking, causing a pleasurable sensation. This pleasurable sensation is generally experienced when female partner lie on her stomach, over a pillow, lifting the vagina, and male rides her from her back. While stroking in this posture, the scrotum touches her soft buttocks causing pleasurable sensation in scrotum, which is an extra pleasure for the male partner.
Foreplay induces a strong mutual desire for penetration to the female partner. Technically, foreplay ends with the beginning of penetration. But practically it may continue while intercourse too. Couple may engage in foreplay-like behavior during intercourse too.
