15 November 2007 at 12:13 am (Climax, Clitoris, Foreplay, Human Body, Human Love, Human sex, Intercourse, Kamasutra, Life, Love, Love making, Oral sex, Orgasm, Relationship, Sex, Sexual pleasure, Sexual posture, posture)
Oral sex consists of all sexual activities that involve the use of the mouth and tongue to stimulate genitalia
There are some reasons to practice Oral sex by the heterosexual (male–female) couple but it is commonly practiced for pleasure or as foreplay. Many women who are anorgasmic can only achieve orgasm through oral sex, and so they often prefer it instead of or in addition to sexual intercourse.
Oral sex is practiced in both heterosexual (male –female) and homosexual (same sex) relationships. In male-female relationships, oral sex can be a temporary measure of contraception, and may be opted as an alternative to intercourse for this reason. It is said by experts that oral sex is not an effective methods of preventing sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
If a couple is uncomfortable with intercourse during menstruation, they may engage in fellatio. If a couple is uncomfortable or unable to perform intercourse during pregnancy, they may engage in oral sex.
Cunnilingus and Fellatio are two common oral sex involving a woman and man’s genitals (as shown in the above pictures). In these cases one partner remains passive but “69” posture is the best way of Oral Sex performed by both partners for simultaneous pleasure of Oral Sex. In Kama Sutra it is called “Congress of the crow”.
Partners lie with their heads at opposite ends of the bed, on their sides (or women over male). The taller partner has to curl up a bit so that each partner’s mouth is lined up with the other’s genitals and vice versa. The most sensitive part of the penis is under the rim of the head. Running female partners tongue under there is sure to please him and so the female partner is pleased when his tongue moves over her clit. Both are leaking each others most sensitive parts of the sexual organs and enjoying the pleasure. This generates pleasures to greater heights emanating moaning sound from both the partners. This way both will reach to extreme leading to climax. At extreme point, she may cry with pleasure before orgasm.
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14 November 2007 at 11:13 pm (Climax, Clitoris, Female body, Human Body, Human Love, Human sex, Intercourse, Life, Love, Love making, Nature, Orgasm, Relationship, Sexual pleasure, Sexual posture, Variants, posture)
Coital Alignment Technique (CAT ) Posture : 
The CAT position is a variant of the missionary position designed to maximize clitoral stimulation during coitus. This is achieved by combining the “riding high” variation of the missionary position with pressure-counter pressure movements performed by each partner in rhythm with coitus. The penetrating partner lies above the receiving partner as in the missionary position, but moves upward along her body, so that the base of his penis provides stimulation to her clitoris. The receiving partner may also wrap her legs around his. Sexual movement is focused in the pelvises, without leverage from the arms or legs. The Rocking upward stroke (receiving partner leads) and downward stroke (penetrating partner leads) of sexual movement builds an electric-like charge that partners let develop and peak naturally.
This doesn’t mean that it works for everyone. It may take a bit of practice.
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29 September 2007 at 5:05 pm (Climax, Clitoris, Female body, Foreplay, Human Love, Human sex, Intercourse, Kamasutra, Life, Love, Love making, Orgasm, Relationship, Sexual pleasure, Sexual posture, posture)
The Kamasutra of Vatsyayana believed to have been written in the 1st to 6th centuries, has a notorious reputation as a sex manual, although only a small part of its text is devoted to sex. Other ancient sex manuals include the lost works of Elephantis; Ananga Ranga, a 12th century collection of Hindu erotic works; and The perfumed Garden, a 16th century Arabic work by Sheikh Nefzaoui.
The Seventh Posture of The Perfumed Garden (Burton’s translation into English) is an unusual position not described in other classical sex manuals. Though it is not described in other sex manuals, but most of the couples make use of this posture due to advantages. The posture goes like this: The female partner lies on her side. The male partner faces her, straddling the female’s lower leg, and lifts the upper leg onto the crook of male’s elbow or onto the shoulder. While both the legs up, vagina is exposed out and male’s member can enter smoothly. In this posture fast and heavy stroking is not possible, that’s why most of the couples make use of this posture during pregnancy..
Couples can discover new postures during their sexual adventures. This posture too is a common one and I believe, most of the couples use it. Though it is not a very satisfying one but many times it is used., especially during pregnancy. Couples while lying side by side, you can communicate each other and engage in foreplay. In fact couple get engaged in this posture while foreplay lying side by side in the bed. While foreplay is on and both are equally aroused, the male partner place his body between her thighs and legs are positioned as said above, and enters her.
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30 August 2007 at 7:56 pm (Climax, Clitoris, Female body, Foreplay, Human Body, Human Love, Human sex, Intercourse, Kamasutra, Life, Love, Love making, Nature, Orgasm, Relationship, Sex, Sexual pleasure, Sexual posture, Variants, posture)
Most sex acts are typically performed on a bed or other simple platform or on the floor. As the range of supports available increases, so does the range of positions that are possible. Ordinary furniture can be used for this purpose. For example a study table or dinning table or kitchen platform can be a good platform for performing sexual intercourse. The female partner will be sitting on the edge of the table and the male partner be standing facing each other. The female partner rest her legs on her partner’s shoulder or wraps around his waist. The male partner insert his member into her vagina, adjusting his height. This is a variant of Missionary posture.
Variants of Women on Top
The popular and pro orgasm posture “women on top” are having some variants. These variants may be useful for either vaginal or anal penetration. The following are the variations:
(a) Sitting on surface or Bed : Here the male partner sits on the surface, legs outstretched. The female partner sits on top(on the lap) taking the penis into her vagina and wraps her legs around her partner. This is called ‘pounding on the spot’ in the perfumed garden. Since both the partner is facing each other closely and the upper parts of the body are easily accessible to both the partners thus foreplay or caressing is possible at any point of time.
Sometimes it may happen like this : the female partner wraps her legs around her partner’s waist and holding him by hands around his neck, keeping her head on her partner’s shoulder. These results upper parts of both the bodies held together tightly which may prevent her from pounding the clit but being lower portion of her body, not tightly held and being under her control, she can still stimulate it by moving her waist and hips and enjoy the clitoral stimulations. Stimulation may not be vigorous but slow. The pace of her movement of her clitoris would depend as per the demand of her body (Clitoris) and she can control the same. If the posture prevents her movements there are every possibility to push the male partner and make him flat on the bed or floor and she rides the way “women on top” posture and reaches to the Golden moment of Orgasm.
(b) The male partner sits on a chair. The female partner straddles her partner and sits, facing each other, feet on the floor. This is sometimes known as the lap dance.
( c) The male partner stands, holding the female partner off the ground. The female partner wraps her legs around the male partner’s waist and the female partners’ arms around his neck while male partner holds her thighs or buttocks while penetrating the vagina from the bottom. The female partner takes active part in this by moving her vagina up and down with the support of her legs.
(d) Same as the above posture, but the female partner’s back is pressed against a wall as a frictional support. The male partner takes active part while penetrating the vagina from the bottom. This is called the supported congress in the Kama Sutra.
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16 June 2007 at 9:17 pm (Climax, Clitoris, Female body, Foreplay, Human Body, Intercourse, Kamasutra, Love, Love making, Orgasm, Relationship, Sex, posture)
A boy is puzzled with a problem and took help of a newspaper “Q&A” forum where he asked- what to do? Because when his girlfriend, after few dating, expressed her desire to enjoy sex, he readily agreed and one day they had it. Later the girl disclosed to him that he was not a good performer in bed because he could not satisfy her. Boy got puzzled, because he loves her.
This is not a new problem. It happens with most of us. Most of the men, when they enter in the world of sex, are unable of satisfy his female partner at one go. Here satisfying a female partner means to achieve what she wants that is taking her to Orgasm. There are many reasons for not achieving of Orgasm, most of us either ignorant or do not take care of this aspect.
“Orgasm is achieved after direct stimulation of the penis or clitoris for a period of time. Sexual intercourse, manual masturbation, oral sex, non- penetrative sex, or a sensual vibrator can cause this stimulation. Any sexual stimulation of the penis or clitoris may eventually result in an orgasm.”
All living creatures are having two types of hunger, one for food to supply energy to our body and another for sex. Sex is like food, an essential biological demand of the body which need to be met for good health and reproduction. As per the hunger, our body urges for sexual union with opposite sex for getting the sexual pleasure out of stimulation of the sexual organs engaged in the sexual act.
Women is God’s beautiful creation. Though the female body is crafted beautifully but some complexity has also been added to it which may be for God’s some hidden agenda.
The male sex organ is so designed, it can easily achieve the ultimate pleasure but woman sex organs are complex in design which makes orgasm difficult to achieve. The joint of sensitive nerves are placed at the bottom of the head of the penis and this part gets direct stimulation while traveling in and out of the vagina while intercourse. But for the female, the Clitoris, a micro penis of female, counter part to the male penis, where all sensitive nerves are terminated and placed above the opening to the vagina and the opening to the urinal path. It sits under a fold of skin, which resembles to a tent. It is called hood. It swells and stiffens when she is aroused.
The position of the clitoris is such that it is difficult to get adequate stimulation or rubbing by the penis shaft while stroking the penis into the vagina in normal vaginal intercourse in missionary or some other positions too. It is a myth that a woman takes a longer time to climax. Due to all these reasons, the achieving Orgasm is difficult for women during vaginal intercourse unless effort is made to provide that needed stimulation. That’s why most of the women don’t reach to orgasm. In this scenario, some women even do not have experience of orgasm in their life time.
Coming into contact of the clitoris and the penis shaft while stroking depends upon the posture while riding her. Apart from the postures the most important is foreplay. Foreplay helps the female partner achieve Orgasm. In the subsequent paragraphs/ postings, foreplay and postures which helps the females to achieve orgasm will be discussed.
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3 February 2007 at 5:18 pm (Life, Love, Relationship)
Love & Hate
Love and Hate are the two faces of a coin, they never meet. It can also be described that where Love ends, Hate starts.
For loving someone, first criterion is liking that person. Liking that person means liking some of his / her qualities that may be beauty, look, body, figure, talent or something special which makes her / him attractive. It can be office colleague working with in the same project and due to most of the times spent together, slowly grew the liking, start endless talking and discovering each others mind. Slowly attraction builds up between the two and this liking and attraction slowly gets converted into love. moment you are in love each other, you will love to talk, love to laugh, love to care and love to love and will try to share every moment with each other. In absence, you would feel his/her absence and you won’t concentrate in any job. This makes you absent minded and sleepless in the bed. Happy moments also makes you laugh and sleepless in joy. Your mind will be full with his/her thinkings. So, love is a wonderful experience.
But what is the other side of this wonderful experience? That also happens sometimes in our lives. it is very much painful when love is broken. Whatever may be the reason, once the relationship changes from sweet to sour, bitterness in life starts. Most of the time it happens due to misunderstanding or communication gap or presence of third person in life. Any reason can be sorted out but not the third person. Whatever may be the reason, when there is no love and hate takes place of Love, the things get totally reversed. The same person won’t attract you anymore and you won’t feel to talk, even to see him/her. The memory of sweet face and electrifying smiles will no longer energize you because hate has taken place of love in your heart.
Love and Hate cannot co-exist together because they are opposite.
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22 January 2007 at 3:07 pm (Human Body, Life, Love, Love making, Nature, Relationship, Spirituality)
W. Somerset Mougham, British novelist said that : “Love is only a dirty trick played on us to achieve continuation of the species.”
About love, different people have different experiences and views based on their experiences in their life. But having experience with love and its pleasures, we never think it as a trick. Love has been made so beautifully that we can’t ignore it in our life. Behind this ‘beautiful love’, a ‘tricks’ plays on us to achieve some purpose. We surrender to love unconditionally for the beautiful things to happen.
Somebody said: “Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you I had no control over.”
We the human being do the things as per God’s wish or as “programmed” by the supreme power. God has embedded instincts in our body system which drives us to do certain things. As we grow old and reach to our youth, the instincts starts working. And slowly we reach to a stage when within us a feeling of attraction towards opposite sex is developed, and we like to be a friend of them. This attraction towards opposite sex is the part of the instincts, and may be conspiracy of God, to make the trick working on us.
Sometimes we fall in love to a almost unknown persons just after one or two meetings as if the meetings were arranged by God and made us to fall in love to run his program on us. Sometimes it happens and soon both of us come to know each other and we forget that we were strangers. When this type of things happen in life we realize that it is God’s wish, and without his approval this can not happen. God’s wish is nothing but the tricks, He wants us to be His media for His programs.
God makes us beautiful, especially the females, blossoms her beauty with all attractive curves (attractive to males). God’s intention or tricks is to make male-female union, as a result of relationship of love.
Inherent instinct takes us to a direction where His wish could be fulfilled. And we finally surrender to His wish and enter into a deeper relationship. It made us thinking that “we are made for each other” and we can no longer live without him/her. Physical urge for union increases and soon we become ‘mad for each other’.
We surrender to the biological urge and physical relationship takes place to enjoy heavenly pleasure out of physical relationship. We never come to know of the ‘tricks’ at this stage, so the ‘enjoyment’ continues because God has selected us as His media and instrumental for His ‘tricks’ for reproduction of human species so that human race is continued. This is how the God is silently playing his tricks on us but we never know it.
“We are all born for love. It is the principle of existence, and its only end.” ~ Benjamin Disraeli
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Oral sex consists of all sexual activities that involve the use of the mouth and tongue to stimulate genitalia
Oral sex is practiced in both heterosexual (male –female) and homosexual (same sex) relationships. In male-female relationships, oral sex can be a temporary measure of contraception, and may be opted as an alternative to intercourse for this reason. It is said by experts that oral sex is not an effective methods of preventing sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
If a couple is uncomfortable with intercourse during menstruation, they may engage in fellatio. If a couple is uncomfortable or unable to perform intercourse during pregnancy, they may engage in oral sex.
